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Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Worrying...Part 3


Wanna quit worrying ?

Use Dope (Drugs)!

I dont't have to do so much search to find out the consequences of using drugs as a tool/means to stop worrying , the reason for this is that I have been through this sh*t before , and I know very well what's it all about.

You worry sometimes cuz you feel insecure , so you head for drugs to calm you down and make you feel happy.

Have you ever felt how much insecurity you can feel when you're runing out of drugs?

In my point of view , the Insecurity I felt in the last case is far more irritating than that of the normal feel of insecurity.

Happiness obtained by drug abuse is so temporary , fake and the after effects are even far worse.

For drug users : Haven't you noticed how much life gets complicated when you take this path?
Don't you remember when you used to beg for money from friends , sell your things , or even steal your own family  just to get the dope? , not to mention the health problems that you'll suffer from via drug abuse.
Physically or mentally . I have a friend who declared himself as the Antichrist , that happened to him because of excess use of drugs.

When you depend on drugs you're actually depending on something that can't be there for you all the time.
You can run out of drugs , money to buy drugs or even you can't  find you're favorite dealer or your favorite type of dope available all the time. So , you will always feel insecure.

In contrast , If you depend on God you will never feel the same way , for he is always available,and you don't have to pay a penny to contact him , he sells happniess but gave you instructions on how to obtain this happiness , I have tried that myself , I followed his guidance and felt much much more happier and higher than I ever felt while using drugs.

Of course , you would say , drugs is more fun , it gathers friends around you and even might give you the ILLUSION that you are cooler with drugs , but the fact is that it isn't , its not fun cuz when you run out, trust me thats no fun at all ...if you are rich you might not run out but you will always feel dependant on it which is another form of insecurity .....it gather's friends around you yes , but can those be called friends? , a friend is a person who seeks your benefit and your happiness  not harm for you , if you think you are cooler with drugs , use my technique ...write down things  you did or said while you're high and look at them when you are sober,
you'll find out that they are either very silly or made you look like a fool , while you think your cool !
Get to the root of the problem , know God and he shall grant you everlasting happiness:
 
He almighty says :
"That man can have nothing but what He strives for;
that (the fruit of) His striving will soon come In sight:
then will He be rewarded with a reward complete;
that to Thy Lord is the final Goal;
that it is He who Granteth Laughter and Tears" (53:39-43)

Hard to implement ? Yes , but the consequences are far beyond you can imagine,eiher here or in the hereafter . If it was just for satisfying Allah that would be cool , but I know that most of you want to satisfy themselves first..Human nature...but there is no other way.





25 comments:

Anonymous said...

It's so educational to hear it from ex-junkie. I have never tried drugs but of what I know it's a betrayal for oneself by his own hands. A great Arab poet said: If faith is lost, security will follow. It's all about faith, rich or poor, sick or healthy, faith will make you able to put up with what ever condition, it will make you always hopeful.

deppy said...

:) may Allah guide our youth to the right path.

PS. could you please put hadith or ayat in Arabic too, sometimes it's hard to recognize and we all need reminders :)

TheSphere said...

Yup no problem , This blog was actually created for non-arabic speakng people for a particular reason, but since Arabs are gonna follow I sure can , Inshallah.

May Allah guide you too.

Ahmad said...

most of the reasons you listed about the disadvantages of drugs are based on financial issues, so if i can afford drugs will that make it ok? the only problem will be me being totally dependent on it? so what? aren't we all dependent on a lot of other stuff in our lives?!

TheSphere said...

Hi Ahmad ,

If you read my post more closely you should have noticed that in case the person has no financial deficiencies then it still wouldn't be okay cuz "you will always feel dependant on it which is another form of insecurity" .

Your other point is invalid cuz we should depend mainly on God the source of ever lasting & REAL happiness , in contrast drugs is a temporary escape from reality which you will have to face sooner or later , We can or should depend on things that benefit us mentally,physically or emotionaly NOT on things that are proven to harm our health significantly.

I don't know what kind of drugs your using - if you were using any - but if you are then you must know that there is a common factor between all types , the bitter after effects ,constant need and the gradual rising desire to increase the dose in order to reach the initial state of satisfaction you felt the first time that made you go on using it, Not to mention the constant swings of mood and behavior that leads to confusion inside you and and in the eyes of other people .

Thanks for your comment anyways , and good luck.

Cheers ; )

TheSphere said...

BTW , the person who commented saying "It's so educational to hear it from ex-junkie." is my dad.

LOL

N.Magdy said...

It takes a truly brave unselfish soul to admit to one's previous undesirable experiences to convey a message for the good of others. Please accept my sincerest respects :)

TheSphere said...

Thanks Dr. Noha for the push ,

William James said : "The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated".

AGII said...

I like your dad. My friends who has lost themselves in drugs also lost their environment. Their real friends and their family.

My family wasn't this strong to keep contact with my own father. And I think it takes much strength to do this. Now my father died. And I have so much regrets I didn't get to know him while he was still alive.

You tell your story trough your eyes. And I admire you for it. I have witnessed the eager for this destroying stuff. I have seen it. I have felt it. And it broke my faith in the world for many years.

Even without touching it yourself. Still drugs will destroy you if you come in contact with it.

It takes a lot of strength to keep on going believing in a true world. Strength I hadn't have for many years. I lost my believe in people. I lost my believe in a God. Yeah stay off this drugs. You hurt more then only your own soul.

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